Do they deserve your kindness?

I have always been a huge supporter of spreading positivity and kindness. I have always been that person that goes out of their way to help others, to make sure others are happy. I as a person, have always hated to see somebody hurting, and loved to see people smiling. That is just the way I am. But I think as I have grown older, I have found myself questioning whether certain people deserve my kindness. Because sometimes you have to drop your act and think about yourself for a minute. And think about whether the kindness you are giving away is being returned, or simply stolen from you.

I think sometimes, being kind is my weakness. Being kind makes me a vulnerable person, because I just care so much about others. And as good as that may sound, it can become damaging. You see, no matter how much somebody hurts me, I will not show it. No matter how much somebody affects me, no matter how much they make me feel bad. When ever they will feel bad, I will always be there to comfort them. Becuase I have always seen sadness in this world, and I have always wanted to do my best to eradicate that saddness. Even if it means giving all of my kindness away, and never seeing it again.

But, I think that there is a certain extent to being kind. Because kindness is such a valuable thing. Kindness embodies every single detail of beauty, and that beauty should be appreciated. So you have to know when your kindness is being appreciated and when it is not. As when it is not, the person you are giving your kindness too, just does not deserve it.

There are so horrible humans in this world, who do horrible things. And those humans, do not deserve my kindness. But there are great humans in this world. Ones that will support me through anything, like I would do them. There are people who will smile at you in the street, or give you a compliment. And you do not have to know them. But you do have to appreciate their kindness. Because kindness can be rare to find, and sometimes it can be given so often that it becomes meaningless.

It’s all about finding the balance between giving kindness, and making sure that you are not giving too much. Because when you give too much kindness to somebody who does not do the same to you, it is such a waste of such a beautiful thing. And that sort of raw, emotional beauty, never deserves to be wasted.

I think its all  about the realisation. Realising what you are worth, and realising what the other person is worth. See you are all amazing, you are all humans with a beating heart, scars, crazy hair and all those flaws that you despise. But you are a gorgeous human, you are a human with so much power, you have the power to do anything, to change the world, to shape your own future. And you have to realise how much you should be valued, so you can stop letting people underestimate that value. Sometimes you have to slam your foot down and make this very earth shake, sometimes you have to because you mean so much, you deserve so much. And ultimately you deserve for your beautiful kindness, to be returned.

I don’t quite know, when this society began to turn its nose down to the very idea of smiling at a stranger. I don’t quite know when this society began to fear anybody that crossed their path in the street. I don’t quite know when this idea of kindness just disintegrated. And I do not know why people will so happily take kindness, but never return it. I don’t know why these things have happened, but if there is one thing that I know. It’s that your kindness means far too much, to be simply taken away from you.

Thank you so much for reading, I honestly do not have a clue as to what I would do without you all. Remember that you are one human with one life, do what makes YOU happy and make it count.

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Keep on spreading kindness lovelies, you never know what somebody is going through. So please don’t assume things. If you see a stranger crying, give them a hug. If you hear a random girl critiquing herself, tell her she is beautiful. We cannot make a positive change to society unless we all try our hardest to make that change.

Love, Misstery